Category: Personal Growth

  • Align: The Hidden Work of Leadership

    Align: The Hidden Work of Leadership

    When pressure increases or certainty fades, the change in our leadership seasons have a way of revealing what truly grounds us. In moments like these, we rarely reach for something new. Instead, we return—often unconsciously—to what has already been formed within us. Our habits, assumptions, values, and spiritual grounding become more evident, whether we’ve named them or not.

    Like trees enduring a Minnesota winter, much of the most important leadership work happens beneath the surface. Winter offers an important lesson. Roots do not resist the season; they respond to it. Snow insulates the soil, protecting what is essential from freezing and creating the conditions needed for sustained growth. What looks dormant is actually aligned for purposeful work that you were created to complete. The unseen actions in winter makes renewal possible in every other season.

    In leadership, we often miss this opportunity. When the season shifts, we can interpret it as limiting or restrictive—something to endure or push through. But winter seasons in leadership invite alignment. They offer space to re-center around what matters most so that our responses are grounded rather than reactive, intentional rather than rushed. This alignment between our inner grounding and external reality creates capacity for growth, hope, and even joy along the journey.

    This is how change unfolds in practice. Awakening helps us recognize that something has shifted. Aligning allows us to re-center our leadership with who we want to be in this new season—before we act. From this place, we gain clarity not just about what to do next, but how to move forward with integrity and intention.

    Winter teaches us that alignment happens in stillness, not in motion. So before you move to what’s next, pause with these questions:

    • Which values, practices, or habits do I need to deepen so they can sustain growth over time?
    • What needs to shift in my environment to protect and sustain what is essential right now?
    • How am I going to align my beliefs, values, and leadership so I can respond thoughtfully rather than simply react to change?

    This kind of reflection isn’t easy. It requires slowing down when everything around you says to speed up. It means sitting with questions that don’t have immediate answers. But this is the work that matters—the work that transforms not just what you do, but who you’re becoming as a leader.

    Alignment doesn’t happen once. It’s a practice we return to whenever the season shifts, whenever pressure increases, whenever certainty fades. And each time we do, we strengthen the roots that will sustain us—and those we lead—through whatever comes next.

    If you’re sensing a shift in your leadership season and want to explore what alignment and growth could look like next, I invite you to reach out through the Connect page on the website.

  • 5 Key Strategies for Effective Coaching Preparation

    5 Key Strategies for Effective Coaching Preparation

    Having a coach to navigate leadership and life can be a new experience for many people.  Because it may be a new experience, questions about what to expect  are natural as well as questions about how to maximize the opportunity.  Being intentional with your preparation for the coaching experience will help you maximize the benefit of your coaching sessions.

    1. Commit the time on your calendar for the coaching sessions and protect it. It is also helpful to protect the time immediately before and after the session to allow you to process what you learned and are feeling as you anticipate next steps.
    2. Prepare for the sessions. Be ready to share what you have done or have not done since the prior session, and what is top of mind for you for the current session. Think about what outcomes you would like to have for the session to consider it successful.
    3. Focus. Create an environment for yourself that is free from distractions for your session. Turn off your phone, let others know you are not available, shut down other apps on your computer that might interrupt your thoughts, and remove any other things that might distract you from being fully present.
    4. Engage with a willingness to explore and reflect on what you are challenged to consider. Be willing to challenge your personal mental models and uncover limiting beliefs that may be creating barriers to your taking next steps towards your aspirations.
    5. Embrace action as you take the next steps. You are creating the next steps on the journey for yourself. The steps you prioritize are dependent on you being willing to lean into the process and grow.